Feminism Nearly Ruined My Life, and I'm Still In My 20's

"Feminist morality is just as terrible as their math. The biological clock is real. So is the fact that sins against purity destroy lives, families, and ultimately civilization. . . . I wish it was easier to get married to another traditional Christian and move on with my life, but my past decisions have put up so many obstacles."

It is my dream to have a family and a bunch of kids, but my dreams are facing big obstacles, because of my past history of cohabitation and fornication.

I’m only 26, and I have one 3 year old child already, and since my conversion I’ve realized just how much more difficult I have made things for myself.

Mid-twenties seemed young, when I was living within the sexual mores of the world. It doesn’t feel so young or simple when I realize 99% of the people I interact with would find my beliefs on faith, chastity, and modesty completely alien. This is made all the more painful when these people bear the name of “Christian”. 

Feminist morality is just as terrible as their math. The biological clock is real. So is the fact that sins against purity destroy lives, families, and ultimately civilization.

I wish it was easier to get married to another traditional Christian and move on with my life, but my past decisions — choices I made, influenced by our God-hating society — have put up so many obstacles. 

I tried to “settle down” young. I was pregnant at 22. After my son turned 7 months old, I even married my son’s father, but the marriage was very brief and did not last. I knew I wanted a family. But at this point I was trying to accomplish God's plan by worldly means, and I have paid dearly for it. 

I see my cool, fun, early-twenties sisters, with zero interest in settling down or having children, and I just pray that they will make better choices than I did. At least I have my wonderful little boy. I have God and the Church. So many women will end up truly alone.

Don’t listen to feminists. 
Don’t focus on your career in your twenties.
Don’t have sex outside of marriage. 
When you get married, don’t contracept your children out of existence.

Listen to the traditional Christian teachings on morality — teachings that all Christians embraced up until 100 years ago.

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